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When I feel lost or overwhelmed, sometimes I sit still, refuse to move, and get really depressed. Sometimes I pour all my energy into...
Melissa Westemeier
Mar 1, 20245 min read


choices
I rarely feature household pets in our annual Christmas letter, but this year I mentioned Rose and Poppy. A week after mailing the...
Melissa Westemeier
Feb 9, 20246 min read


plot twist
I left you with an offer on the table for my books, but I forgot to mention how the actual writing of books was going. During the query...
Melissa Westemeier
Dec 23, 20237 min read


and more murder
By January, Small and Graff gave me some valuable feedback on my murder mystery and I rolled up my sleeves. Writing requires juggling a...
Melissa Westemeier
Dec 12, 20237 min read


murder
I've been cryptic about my writing on this site over the past year, partly because I've been in the dark myself, partly because I've been...
Melissa Westemeier
Dec 1, 20235 min read
Workshops Available!
I love helping people with their writing and reading. Featured workshops include: Injecting Humor into Your Writing You wrote it. Now...
Melissa Westemeier
Oct 20, 20231 min read


free-range
Much has been written and much more has been said about parenting styles and while my oldest would beg to differ at times (specifically...
Melissa Westemeier
Oct 17, 20235 min read


challenge
I've been a fan of the Sunday puzzle on NPR for years. When the boys were little, we'd play it together on the way to church, shouting...
Melissa Westemeier
Oct 6, 20234 min read


swim buddy
When I was growing up we had a poster in our basement play area that showed two kids playing and the caption from Ecclesiastes 4:9-10,...
Melissa Westemeier
Aug 3, 20233 min read
Big Announcement!
I'm excited to share that I've signed on with Dawn Dowdle at Blue Ridge Literary Agency! My next project is a murder mystery involving a...
Melissa Westemeier
Jul 7, 20231 min read


adjust
My youngest offspring has always needed to move. He runs, jumps, flips, spins, and throws with dexterity and speed. Sport is as essential...
Melissa Westemeier
Mar 25, 20233 min read


space
I haven't written much here lately, but trust me, I have been writing. A few times a week I hike at a local nature preserve, a habit that...
Melissa Westemeier
Dec 10, 20223 min read


bull(thistles)
It's a sultry 76 degrees this morning and I started a fire in our backyard pit. (Disclosure: I hate fires. When people are all, "Hey,...
Melissa Westemeier
Aug 24, 20224 min read


smörgåsbord
Smörgåsbord is one of those Swedish words that sounds suggestive of its meaning. Smörgåsbord has a rich and satisfying sound, filling the...
Melissa Westemeier
Aug 16, 20224 min read


kindness
Acts of kindness that I still reflect on: When I was sixteen I was riding my bike to the public library on a very rainy day. Somehow (I...
Melissa Westemeier
Apr 19, 20225 min read


smackdown
Monday started a new term and the first writing assignment I give my students involves crafting some flash nonfiction. I guide them...
Melissa Westemeier
Jan 30, 20223 min read


escape
I haven't been to the ocean in two years until this past week. For me that's a big deal. There's something specifically restorative about...
Melissa Westemeier
Jan 2, 20223 min read


thorn
For just over five years we have had the sweetest cat. He turned up one summer evening in our back yard. The boys were playing outside...
Melissa Westemeier
Nov 8, 20217 min read


killers
For years I've enjoyed the pleasures of a nature center up the road from my house. Purdy offers plenty of trails with hills, prairie and...
Melissa Westemeier
Oct 24, 20214 min read


fresh start
I keep thinking of this song by Semisonic called "Closing Time" with the lyrics "Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's...
Melissa Westemeier
Jun 9, 20216 min read
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